
"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."
-Maya Angelou, the poet memoirist.
They say lasting memory cannot be formed without emotional arousal. To think, we hardly remember nice strangers who hold the door for us or offer us their seat in a crowded bus. But we remember the stranger in vivid details who, by one or more means, gives us a scare. Fear is a stronger emotional response than gratitude and hence the scary memory gets etched deeper. Deeper, stronger memories have one thing in common: they rise from events that evoke strong emotional arousals. Nerds believe that such arousal ropes in certain parts of the brain into the fray (like, amygdala) that are master consolidators of memory. Thus, the strength of emotional arousal following an event correlates directly with the strength of the subsequent memory for that incident.
It is thus no surprise that I will never forget you. In your presence, my emotions have raged over me like feral horses. These storming emotions have clipped the wings… wings of your memories in me. They are not going anywhere. Therefore, neither are you.
But that is only half the circle.
While emotional arousal facilitates formation of lasting memory, memories that last often arouse deep emotions on cloudy days. On such dimly lit days, I feel you. Your eyes, your smile, your smell… they rampage all over me all over again. Caught in this unending circle of wingless memories and my ruthless emotions, I melt and end up being wingless myself... one fantastic way to remain obstinately yours.
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PS: Shooting this image was fun. I tried out the 1.4X converter with my 400mm lens and ended up losing the autofocus. Using lasting memories of manual focusing from years ago I focussed the handheld heavyweight lens with my own hand. Yay! Wait... don't give me any credit... there are all those out-of-focus images also that remind me I am no magician.